Do men ages 21-26 even look for wives anymore? Or just side pieces, fuck buddys, jump offs, fwb, and baby mamas? I really want to know the answer to that. Even if you aren’t ready to settle down, do you think at all about your ideal wife?
Every time I see anything recent about my ex, he looks bad. It’s like, since we broke up, his life has seriously gotten shittier. You’re 25. Why can’t you hold a job? Why don’t you have a car? Why can’t you maintain a relationship? I loved the hell out of you. Gave you positive reinforcement when your mom gave you the blunt truth. Took you back and forth to work (your dream job I helped you get), wrote you letters of encouragement, paid for your phone bill and every meal we’ve had and every movie we’ve ever seen except for two times. Still, you fuck up. I can’t help you. You don’t want to help your damn self. Take constructive criticism. Re-evaluate why you aren’t happy instead of reiterating it. The sad part, through all your judgement, all those pictures you put up with other girls while we dated, I love you. I’m not in love with you, I love you. But I can’t fix you. I can’t do anything for you anymore.
No favorite, but I’m a hopeless romantic, so if they fit in my mind, I ship them. (i.e., Laura x Steve, Dwayne x Whitley, Chick x Dude (The Couple: youtube.com/user/blackandsexytv), anything w/Jamie Foxx&Kerry Washington… and so on… .)
I put in Marley Twists for the first time by myself on February 27th. I’ve never worn weave. I was trying it as a protective style. The twists (the Marley hair) would unravel. I wanted to put gel on it, but was kind of afraid it would lock. I’m taking the hair out now, but I’ll put it back in later. I’m not used to the feeling of weave. Anyone who’s familiar with putting in their own Marley Twists or with Marley Hair in general, any suggestions or tips on how to fix this?
When that time comes, I’m only telling a few people that I’m gone. No one will know when I’m coming back. My family doesn’t listen to me, but they all know how to find me when they need something. I’m tired of selfish people taking everything. And I’m tired of being the one giving them the power to take everything.